To the Working Mom Who Feels Like She’s Failing: You’re Not Alone

If you’re a working mom overwhelmed by the pressures of balancing work, family, and personal sanity, this message is for you. In my recent YouTube video, I get real about the feelings of failure and how to reframe your thoughts.

The Myth of Failing

So many of us end each day feeling like we're not enough. Whether it’s as a mom, an employee, or a partner, the self-judgment creeps in. We find ourselves torn between commitments to our careers, our kids, our partners, and ourselves. But let me be the voice reminding you that these feelings of inadequacy do not define your worth or your success.

The Never-Ending To-Do List

The mental load we carry can feel overwhelming. The perpetual list of tasks and responsibilities—work deadlines, parenting duties, household chores—seems never-ending. We battle societal pressures to exceed in all areas, from work to home, and feel judged if we falter.

Teaching Through Action

In the midst of this chaos, there’s a powerful lesson to impart to our children. They witness your perseverance and resilience. They learn that success is achieved through persistence, not perfection. Watching you tackle challenges equips them with the courage to chase their dreams.

Finding Strength in Community

If you’ve ever found yourself in tears during the school drop-off, replayed your day with doubt about your adequacy, or wondered if you said “not now” too often, know you’re not alone in these experiences. Every working mom is navigating the same tightrope, striving to balance home life and professional obligations while maintaining self-identity.

Reframing Failure

Showing up, even when it’s hard, is not failure. It’s strength. For those days when you think you’re not enough, remember that your effort and love are teaching your children valuable life lessons.

The Reality Behind the Scenes

Your children see far more than your tiredness or moments of stress. They see a mom who prioritizes their needs, who works tirelessly, and who embodies persistence and love. They cherish the moments of togetherness more than any perceived flaw in your day.

The Legacy We Build

We are the generation paving the way for our children—juggling careers, nurturing families, and pursuing our dreams. Our actions empower them to break barriers and build their futures on the foundations of courage and resilience.

Conclusion

Remember, you are doing a phenomenal job. Even on challenging days, your children see greatness in you, and you are forging a path worth following. One day at a time, one breath at a time, you are capable, and you are not alone in this journey.

Join a Community of Support

If burnout and exhaustion weigh heavy on you, know there's a community ready to support you. I invite you to learn more about the Working Mama Reset Program. Feel free to reach out to me or download my free working mom planner and time-saving resources in the description below. Keep going; you’ve got this, and we’ve got you.