Working Mom Advice: I Asked 75 Working Moms Their Tips and Tricks for Getting it All Done
Navigating the journey as a working mom can be both rewarding and challenging. Welcome to the community that understands you, where every busy working mom can find inspiration and practical advice for juggling careers, kids, marriage, and the minutiae of everyday life.
Today's discussion arises from a recent YouTube video I did where I recapped heartfelt conversations with 75 incredible working moms. They've shared candid insights into managing it all, and their stories are a treasure of wisdom we all need.
The Heartfelt Question
In my quest to understand the real-life hacks of working moms, I asked one essential question: How do you get it all done? Their honesty was eye-opening and incredibly relatable. Their insights hold valuable lessons for reclaiming productivity and sanity.
Five Key Themes from Working Moms
Boundaries Are Everything
Many moms emphasized the importance of setting clear, unapologetic boundaries. This includes avoiding work emails post-5 PM and declining commitments that don't align with their values. Protect your family time and learn to say no when necessary. Remember, boundaries aren't selfish—they're essential.
Ruthless Prioritization
Life demands that we prioritize like we do at work—focusing only on what's truly urgent. A compelling metaphor that surfaced is the "glass and rubber balls" concept. Glass balls, like health and family, are fragile; dropping them can have dire consequences. Conversely, rubber balls are tasks that can bounce back, such as skipping a laundry day. Recognizing the difference reduces burnout and ensures focus on what truly matters.
It Takes a Village
Don't venture through motherhood alone. Moms often feel guilty seeking help, yet it's crucial. From carpooling to online grocery shopping, building a support network lightens the load. Even virtual communities can provide the camaraderie necessary to thrive.
Communication Is Non-negotiable
Strong communication, both at home and work, was repeatedly mentioned. Regular family meetings and workplace transparency promote harmony. Without clear communication, expectations go unmet, compounding stress. Speak up for your needs and lighten your emotional load.
You Matter Too
Self-care is a non-negotiable aspect of maternal wellbeing. Taking time for oneself, even 30 minutes a day, enables better motherhood. Whether walking, reading, or simply breathing in fresh air, these moments fill your cup so you can pour into others.
Career Advice for the Long Game
The discussions extend beyond daily survival to career longevity. Seek supportive bosses and roles that offer flexibility. Redefine success to include family and personal wellbeing, and manage your time as if it depends on it—because it does. Your career choices should reflect evolving values—it's okay for priorities to shift.
The Resounding Truth
After hearing these diverse stories, one undeniable truth emerges: It's not about perfect juggling; it's about focusing on what truly matters. Release unnecessary guilt, honor your values, and remember, you're not alone.
If you're battling guilt, burnout, or feeling overwhelmed, you don't have to navigate this journey alone. Join our community of supportive working moms through the Working Mama Reset Program. Contact me to learn more, or download my free Working Mom Planner and 101 Time Saving Tips guide from the links in the description.
Remember, you are doing an amazing job—even when it doesn't seem like it—and I'm here to support you in your journey.